Risk Reduction Strategies

Tips to reduce your risk of committing a sexual assault or experiencing unwanted sexual contact -

With friends, acquaintances, and dating partners:

• Never assume that you know what another person wants sexually.
  ASK FOR CONSENT, LISTEN, and RESPECT their response.
• If you are drinking alcohol, keep a buddy with you who will help you make decisions similar to those you would choose while sober.
• Anyone has the right to change their mind at any time--and if you have any doubts whatsoever, or feel that you are getting a mixed message, then you should stop, ask, and clarify. If you still aren't absolutely sure that your partner is consenting, STOP. If your partner continues sexual activity that makes you uncomfortable, LEAVE the situation.
• Know and communicate your limits clearly and firmly. In addition to saying, "NO," you could also say, "I want you to stop right now," or "I am very uncomfortable with this, it is not okay with me."
• Avoid being isolated with one person in a room, sleeping porch, or car. This reduces the risk of unwanted sexual contact. Think carefully before leaving a party with someone you do not know.
• Be wary of behaviors in people you spend time with such as manipulation, viewing others as objects, constant anger, putting people on pedestals, or extreme sex role identification (beliefs that women and men should behave in specific ways). These are signs of risk - be aware.
  

General personal safety:

• Whenever possible, walk in lighted areas at night. Use an assertive step, stay close to the curb, walk rapidly, and be alert to your surroundings.
• If you are outdoors and believe that you are in danger, run to a lighted store or residence and yell "fire" (not "rape"). Blue lights are available on campus to immediately contact campus police.
• Never open your door to strangers. Ask repair and service people to show identification. If someone needs to make a phone call, ask them for the number and make the call for them yourself while they wait outside.
• Keep doors and windows at home locked, even when you are home.
• Students are encouraged to call SafeRide at 737-5000. They offer students a ride home after dark. This office also provides programs and resources on rape education.
• Be realistic. If your life is in danger, do whatever it takes to save your life.